Wednesday, August 30, 2023
Hospital or Long term care Witnessing
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Befriending is hard in my church
Q: Reaching a False Convert at work
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Why it seems most believers aren't witnessing?
Thursday, July 20, 2023
Testimony Sample - Church kid - 2
Testimony Sample - Church Kid - 2
My Life before Christ
When I was a child I was reserved, but still I used to do or say what I wanted. I didn't always obey my parents; because I wanted to do the things I wanted to do or say what I wanted to say. I even got in trouble at school a couple times. I didn't care if I cursed at my siblings, and even used God's name in vain a few times when I wasn't around my parents. I only did "good" things in order to get something out of it (something that would benefit me). This all sounds really bad, but when comparing myself to my siblings and classmates I felt I was a really good person.
I enjoyed going to my grandparents house every weekend, because I got to spend time with them and they loved me. I got to go to church with them every Sunday. Their lives reflected that God and Jesus Christ were in control of their lives and the center of it. This is one thing that stayed with me year after year.
Intervention of God's Truth (Gospel)
On a Sunday in 1986 I was sitting next to my grandparents in the Adult Worship service. I was 12. I decided to listen to a full sermon and hear 'what the preacher was talking about.' The pastor's sermon was on the Gospel message. He spoke about God, about Sin, God's Kindness, and about Hell and Heaven. I found out that not everyone goes to heaven, and nothing I could do would get me into Heaven. When I think back on this and consider the 10 commandments and how God sees me as a Lying, Thieving, Blasphemous, Self Righteous, Murderer at heart I knew I would stand before God on Judgment day and be seen by God as a guilty criminal, who's violated His Law! As the pastor talked I realized I was a sinner and that I would be going to Hell. I learned why I needed Jesus as my Savior!
Did you know that Jesus came to earth with the sole mission to redeem man from their sins? He took God's wrath that we deserved while he was on the cross, so that we could have the opportunity to be made right with God. Jesus paid the fine for believers so we can go free from God's court room, and not be punished for our crimes. Justice was served and we can leave as a free man. We don't have to go to Hell. Jesus offers the escape route and the forgiveness of our sins. God wants to save you from Himself because he must punish criminals on the Day of Judgment. He warns us to flee to Christ Jesus, now, while we still have the chance. God tells us that if we delay obeying the gospel and receiving the free gift he offers, and if we die still as a sinner, its too late. The only thing awaiting those who die in their sins is Judgment and eternity in Hell.
I heard how Jesus would be with me, and help me live a right and righteous life. And that I would have a relationship with him now and be with him for eternity in Heaven. All I had to do was give up my sins, repent of them (asking Jesus for forgiveness, and forsaking all sins), and placing my faith and trust in Jesus work on the cross. God offered me mercy and grace when I didnt deserve it. I walked up the isle at the end of the service when they asked if anyone wanted to get right with God, today. I told the pastor I wanted Jesus to be my Savior. I prayed to God and he forgave me of my sins because He promised He would if I came to Him, and I trust and believe that God did that. And I put my trust in Christ as the one who paid my sin debt to God in full.
I like to talk to people about Jesus ever since He came into my life. I was baptized shortly after that, simply to publicly show that I had (already) died to my old way of life and have risen to a new life in Christ. That I was a believer in Jesus Christ and would follow his example of obedience to God, and live for Christ for the rest of my life. I have a Father in Heaven who loved me enough to prove it, through Jesus, and it came at such a high cost to Him.
How my life has changed since salvation
Over the years I have had wonderful life with Jesus. It's still a normal human life filled with problems too. Yet, He has helped me through the many rough physical, emotional, and financial situations. And He still tests my faith, or allows me to go through things, in order to strengthen me, or be an example that helps others through the same things in the future.
I have Christ's righteousness but am not perfect like Christ. I am still human and still have a sinful nature inside me (which is continually at war with my new nature). Sometimes I make wrong choices (sin), and I have to confess the sins in my life, as they block a believer's fellowship with God until it is sorted out in prayer. He gives me the strength and power to do just that. Since Jesus is the Great High Priest, he intercedes for me and other believers too. And just like when we are in trouble with our earthly father if we go to him, he will forgive us and restore the relationship. This is the same with Father God. Our salvation is already dealt with, but our relationship with one another needs to be fixed whenever disobedience and sin are in our lives.
I came to realize the importance of reading the Bible all the time to stay close to Him, know more about Him, and grow in my life; to become more the person God wants me to be. I worship Him regularly with other believers at Church; and he deserves our worship, and praise and glory for all He has done for us. I serve the Lord with the gifts he gave me (to serve in the church, among other members, and be a blessing to those in the community). I found a readable Bible and regularly enjoy spending time in fellowship with Him in the Scriptures and talk to Him during the day through prayer. I have joined an good Bible centered church, that upholds the authority and truth of Scripture, and that is important today more than ever. Through all these things I have grown as a Christian and continually apply Scripture to my life. I enjoy telling people about Christ Jesus and explain His kindness in the Cross towards all us wretched sinners, so they can hear the good news. I tell them how I turned from my way of life and sinful lifestyle, and turned to obey God and live for Him - and I explain to them how they can too.
My assurance for eternity
Scripture says I received eternal life the moment I repented and believed God's message. God has placed the Holy Spirit inside of me as the seal and guarantee of my salvation. God continually uses me for His purposes every day. As a believer, I desire to keep doing what he wants me to do, and grow closer to God in my relationship with Him. God said he will make me more like Jesus until the day he takes me to my eternal home with him in heaven....which is something I am really looking forward to. Until then I have the Joy of the Lord in my life during good and bad times, and His Spirit to guide me to do His will and share His saving message with others every chance I get.
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Testimony Sample - Church kid - 1
Testimony Sample - Raised in Church
Before Salvation
I grew up with half and step siblings and in a broken home and I wasn't really cared about. My mother always dropped me off at my grandparents every weekend from toddler through high school where I went to Church with them. I lived and acted like kids did back in the 80's, but was sheltered. Even though I was really a pretty good kid compared to the ones I lived with, and my school classmates. I just lived in my sin nature and was guided by some morality because of my grandparents influence. When I got a bit older I attended the adult worship service, and sat between my grandparents. I would lean on them, snuggle with them, and stay busy with color in books they got me, (and try to sit through the sermon part of the service and not squirm too much or grandpa would put his thumb in my shoulder to get me to correct my behavior).
When I got Saved
When I was 12 years old, I started to wonder what the pastor was talking about. I began to try to listen to him, (it really was a lot for a preteen's attention span, even back then). However on one of the first Sunday's of trying to focus, I actually was able to listen well to the sermon. The church had a solid preacher. He talked about Sin, Judgment, Hell, Heaven and Jesus. I remember being in Grandma's 4 & 5 year olds Sunday class where I learned about the 10 commandments, so when I heard the sermon, I understood what Sin was, and of course saw it play out in my home life. Also, I knew personally that I had lied. And that my babysitter had talked me into stealing some 10c bazooka gum at a mini mart gas station in town once. I had tried to cheat on tests at school but was too short to see others papers, and I knew I had probably stolen something of my sisters at some point like kids do, and that meant I coveted too, because I wanted something that wasn't mine. I understood that I was a sinner.
The pastor talked with me afterwards, (and my mom came to have a meeting with the three of us). The meeting ended with him saying he thought I was too young. The following Sunday I went right back up there at the alter call. Imagine telling a child that they can't become a Christian, have their sins forgiven, have a relationship with Jesus, and go to Heaven. No one was going to tell me that I can't follow Jesus, be loved by him, and be with him in eternity. So they had to accept it was genuine.
Since I became a Christian
After I turned to Jesus and trusted in Him to be my Savior, I attended a children's new believers class, and through a small booklet with a few lessons, I learned what the Christian life in my daily walk looked like, and to have Jesus be the one controlling my life, not myself. I was baptized shortly after that. Everything I learned about how to live as a Christian came from Sunday School and the things I learned from sermons and the Bible since then. I tried to live a life that God would be happy with. Though young, I was able to serve others & bless others, by joining my grandparents and the group of people who would go to the old folks homes in town after Church (and we would sing and have a little worship time with them). I really enjoyed it and looked forward to it. I tried to be nice and kind to other people even when they werent nice to me. Of course I wasnt perfect, and I messed up sometimes. Sanctification is a process that continues throughout a believers lifetime. Years later after I grew up I remembered trying to talk to a kid on the bus on the way home from school about Jesus. It was a vague memory, so I asked my mom about my childhood in regards to whether I told people about Jesus and she said I talked about Jesus all the time. I was glad to hear that.
I was in church every Sunday as a youth. Even though I didnt have a Bible when I became a Christian, and no one told me that I should be reading it every day, I eventually did get one at my 8th grade graduation (as a gift from my grandparents). It was hard to read and understand it outside of Church classes, because back then most churches only used the old English KJV and it was very difficult for a child and even young adults. But when I was in the military around the age of 21 I read through it for the first time in my life, and I was glad. It only took 2 weeks! I liked how I knew many things in there (because of the faithful teachers who God used to teach me, even though I was usually the only student they had for years and years). I read the Bible regularly now, I am in church on Sunday morning, Sunday evening, and Wednesday night services, as well as other opportunities. I love worshiping God, singing praises to Him, fellowshipping with my Christian family, and the many opportunities available there. I also eventually learned to explain the gospel well; it is a good and loving thing to share Jesus with others. I have been part of various street evangelism groups, online ministries, and outreach teams with my church over the years. I enjoy answering peoples questions and helping them learn about God, Christianity, and how to be saved.
And I keep growing in my knowledge of Scripture and living out the Christian life more maturely. Though I am not perfect, I try to stay sensitive to any sin in my life, and strive to fight and conquer it to victory over it. And that is a normal part of walking in sanctification and persevering until the end.
I love Jesus. I am so grateful that he loves me, he cares about and for me, that he always has and always will. I just want to keep finding opportunities where he can to do good things through me for his Glory. And, I want to become more and more like Jesus every day until he returns or calls me home.
If you would like to understand the gospel and why it is important, visit NeedGod.com
Wednesday, July 19, 2023
Testimony - ideas for sharing
When you are a new believer, you want to share your faith with others and you are not knowledgeable in apologetics or the Scripture yet, as more mature believers are. So below are some ideas on how you can share your testimony which shares the gospel, and a few other ideas and tips.
Preparation
First you need a written testimony before you can articulate your conversion story with others, and share the gospel through it.
Once you have a final draft of it, ask a couple mature believers (who share the law and sin when discussing the gospel with people), to review your testimony and ask for feedback. Make any changes you think are appropriate, and finalize it.
Once that is completed, spend time memorizing it.
Ideas and Tips for sharing your Testimony
1. Consider telling your testimony on video. This is helpful and useful for many opportunities.2. If you were not baptized yet, you can use that opportunity to invite people you know to attend this important event in your life.
*Mail rsvp cards and plan for
A: a refreshments afterwards at your home if it is in the evening, or B. a light lunch at your place or a banquet hall if you get baptized right at the end of service, if it is after church service.
*Make sure the pastor allows for a time just prior to your baptism to give your testimony, and make sure you have it memorized.
If a light gathering time at your home, think of ideas for the refreshments gathering. It doesn't have to be much, nor last very long. Just a fellowship kind of time.
If it is a light lunch after church or at a banquet hall you can consider this baptism event idea.
3. If you were already baptized consider something similar by throwing a born again birthday party for yourself and invite everyone you know over. You do not need to tell them what kind of event it is other than inviting them over for your birthday party. As part of the event consider
4. You can post your testimony in a document and email it off to everyone with a short note. *Make sure you title the email something eye catching like "I wanted you to know" or "There's something I have been meaning to tell you" or "I thought it was time I told you..."
5. You can post your testimony video on youtube or Godtube and email it off to everyone with a note
6. You can post the video on your social media page (such as facebook) and redirect others to it from your other social media pages via the link in bio or in linktree.
7. You can share the link to the testimony or the video when you are talking with people online as a new believer if there is opportunity for you to talk about Christianity being true and truth, and that you experienced radical transformation all believers do at the miracle of your conversion.
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Thursday, July 06, 2023
Christians, Tips & Tracts
What Christians need to know and consider about eatery tipping.
There was never an issue in the past with tipping, but some new modern entitlement expectation of tips has arisen with the Z and Alpha generation. These folks were young when the 2020 riots and new looting culture began being encouraged among unsaved people.
Tipping was always voluntary and only if you wanted to, and only if someone went extremely above what you expected. It was rare to tip. And even if there was a tip $1 was normal, then $3 or so. It has gotten out of hand today with this entitlement generation thinking they are absolutely entitled to your money and demanding about it, (as well as how much). Their love of money is at the root of all sorts of evil thoughts, words and behaviors both to those who get food delivered or even for to go. It is the employers job to pay their salary, and it is the employee's job to understand the income they signed up for and that they took that job at that wage. They are free to leave and find a more appropriate living wage for themselves
I am not advocating for not tipping. But each can determine as their conscience leads them.
I recently ran into some people online complaining, both unsaved and saved, about a image of an old old tract that was used long ago, that is not used anymore today. It was brought up because today servers have incorrect understandings of tips and tips are in the news a lot these days. And it has caused all kinds of arguing and strife and hate.
Here are some regular questions and objections by both groups and some suggested recommendations and reminders. I hope it helps you think through this topic, and also consider using that article link when you have gospel convos online related to gospel tracts and tipping. It includes several calls to action to the gospel, and resources for both believers, and the unsaved. More people see these comments and links(1) than just the person you interact with, so on some platforms like fb try to engage in the "top comments" area first, before going to all comments to search out additional gospel opportunities, as those in the top group are the ones most people will see first.
Feel free to search up tip tract and similar wordings to locate more posts on social media platforms to engage in this topic and the helpful link to get people on both sides thinking, and it redirects to the gospel too.
Think of things you can say when you leave the link there.
Here are a few ideas.
- I saw this recently and it made me think about this, link.
- Christians need to use appropriate tracts based on where they are, this talks about that, link.
- This is an old image & is rarely if ever used today, but the general discussion is good - link.
- This person had something good to say about this very topic, link.
- ๐ค Have you see this yet? link.
- Have you had a chance to review this? link.
- There are a lot of things people haven't considered, link.
- ๐ค Some valid points made here, and here link.
- That question ๐ was actually answered here, link.
- That issue was actually disvussed here too, link.
- There was a good discussion going on here about it, link.
- other....
For those who say they dont trust offsite links, you can tell them:
- I completely understand. You can go to Norton link safety check to verify the link before visiting, your safety matters. https://safeweb.norton.com
Typically it isn't those who are worried about safety, it is usually those who dont want to continue the convo nor go see what the link says, but still want to debate you and get you to say things in comments that might get you flagged, or just to be a time waster, or arguer with you. This above response will either get them curious to just go look at the link, or for those genuinely concerned, they'll appreciate you tried to keep them safe, and when they read the gospel, will also see you are trying to help them with their eternal safety as well.
Direct link to the article
https://snsanswers.blogspot.com/2023/01/viral-tract.html
(1) Footnote:
32 people viewed the viral tract link today. Since it was originally posted 83 looked at it.
Wednesday, May 17, 2023
Airline Evangelism
Airline gospel
There's been a viral video and debate going on about "reclining seat" on airplanes. This is highly likely Economy/Coach class, but could apply to some business class airplanes too.
I commented online to the discussion, and ended up with a gospel idea.
Comment:
Let's be decent people knowing airlines caused this issue. So, If leg room or exit to toilet space is minimal on a crap airline, even in economy, i would prefer if the one wanting to recline asked the one being crunched if they mind if you recline for 10 min or a short nap. That way the person being crunched is being taken into consideration, as they might have health issue and need to pee a lot, or have to get up and walk a lot for circulation needs or illness related. It also gives them a chance to go to toilet or try to go, so discomfort and issues getting out of window or middle seat are avoided. It also let's you communicate needs between each other, so "viral video jerry springer" stuff is avoided and all can have a pleasant trip.
Gospel idea:
Think of it as a gospel care package. It is also a peace package.
Like Christmas & Halloween evangelism, we can find out how many seats are on the plane in your "class" and flight attendants. +2.
Then create paper print out message, see template example link, to hand out to each person onboard once everyone is seated.
*Print a few additional ones for animals. 1. dog speak (links to a dog bark that mimics good boy๐) 2. Horse neighing, 3. Cat meow. It makes it kinda fun.
The message has a QR code to scan.
It links to a page or to the "Good Flight" app that, designed to, provides:
Shares the needGod.com video, a link to text of good text extra, next steps new believer, audio of John, LSB link to read Bible, free dramatized Scourby audio of Genesis, Exodus, some OT, and NT, with select Psalms n Proverbs (link to full Bible audio playlist on yt & purchase download of Scourby sale option). And link to FAQ answers of Christians. Links to LW free movies.
Bible art verses to browse thru. Visually get them reading Scripture.
Also has area travelers can unlock for travel itineraries, multi day, 1 day, half day trips.
Collects passenger survey info.
*Do you like the idea of passengers checking with those behind them to see the needs and status before reclining?
*Do you think it is reasonable for flight attendants to accommodate the medical needs of passengers, such as:
>if a reclining person has a medical condition, but the person behind them does too, that a seat change can be made for the one behind the recliner, to swap same seat spot with someone flying solo, or a adult volunteer.
>if a reclining person has a medical condition, but the person behind them has a (legit) service animal, that a seat change can be made for the one behind the recliner, to swap same seat spot with someone flying solo, or a adult volunteer? (As the dog needs to get up to perform medical, assistance & life saving tasks, and cant do so if locked under the seat)
*Should all seats be non reclinable unless passenger has legitimate medical issue and flight attendant, upon confirming by medical form in the system (from check in on fliers profile), then unlocks the recline feature for that seat? (With above noted mitigations taken into consideration)?
*Do you think airlines need to redesign for enough space for average body to get up and move out of the seat when a seat is reclined, so anyone can recline?
*Would you be ok with absorbing an additional fee on your ticket, to account for the airline losing seats to accommodate a redesign?
*Would you rather the airline redesign, without ticket price increase, so some seats are stacked, and those who
*Do you want airlines to go back to previous ticketing policy that all seats cost the same in each class?
*Do you want airlines to stop splitting children up from their families & go to back to previous way where children (infant to age 17) are all seated in the same row with their parents, or at least across 2 rows but where one parent is on each isle but sitting next to their children?
*Do you want airlines to include passengers input as Stakeholders when considering changes in design and policies that affect fliers?
*Do you want airlines to make it policy to get input from all fliers as "Stakeholders" by giving input by website surveys?
*Do you think airlines should swap out used pillows and blankets at destinations to sanitize and reuse, vs never sanitize.
*Do you think airlines should offer healthy food options for children
*Do you think airlines should provide bottled water for passengers asking for water beverage?
*Do you think Airlines should have high quality noise canceling earplugs available to passengers who need peace from crying babies and misbehaving screaming children?
*Do you think flight attendants, by policy like restaurant managers, should have the authority to request parents control their children and respect airline manners/behavior. (So parents actively handle the situation, and not cause problems with the mental health of flight passengers)?
*and as in prev question, do you think with a parents permission (by a thumbs up) flight attendant can kindly but sternly warn a child that their behavior is not ok and they should stand up and apologize to everyone for negatively disturbing them? (or something along those lines, to curb misbehavior when the child wont obey the parent)?
*Do you think flight attendants should also have authority by policy to ask a passenger to
>play audio items with headphones on.
>wear headphones and play music or videos at a lowered volume so it doesnt disturb those next to them.
>Not watch porn or read porn when next to those under 18 or if requested by women or others sitting next to or in view of the screen.
*What small reasonable reward should parents give to children who behave on the plane, when they land?
*Would you appreciate a disabled person letting you know if they might need medical assistance on the flight, so you are aware?
* To prevent a wheelchair bound person having to get to the bathroom by dragging their body all the way down the isle, would you as a able bodied person be will willing to help carry them there?
A. I would help. B. Not strong enough but is a good idea C. Would help if someone else was also able to help. C. Would not help
*What other similar reasonable changes do you think airlines should make?
Sitting next to a child?
Use the app or physical use the 5 star stickers in the baggie to reward their good behavior. Ask their parent or guardian if they can award them a good behavior star. And if yes, place it on the hand next to you and say something short/nice to the child. ๐. When you are about to land, and they did well. Ask if they would like to put the "good behavior smile award" on their shirt ๐๐. And that might give them good feelings and reward good behavior. But if a good child and misbehaving child are in same row, and throws a tantrum cuz they didnt get good stars [which is why the app helps eliminate that and only focuses on the good behaving child], tell them "if they behave good for the next 30 minutes, you will be happy to reward their good behavior with a good star too, but you have to earn it. Do you want to earn a good reward? Ok we have a deal then?๐" and you can tell them "a good trick and easy way to not disturb others, is to find a fun activity. What is a fun activity you can play on the airline app or your tablet? Do you think you can find one?"
Bonus: pay attention to the candy the mom lets them eat. And if you before you get off the plane if you have a leftover candy or 2 of that they ate and the parents are ok with it, & if they are only 1 or 2 kids in your row, then say "thank you for your good behavior today, i want to gift you this candy, if your mom gives permission." And let the parent give the child time to say thank you. And you could tell them to enjoy their trip. It just might make them feel good both about doing what is right mannered and gives them happy feelings. Even if the one did better after being a misbehaver. (Kids remember how people treated them even when they had a bit of a bad day too. They have big feelings and are still learning how to behave in society). Let's be kind, and forgiving, and helpful to others too. It is only a hour or few hour flight, but can impact a child for a lifetime.
App
Includes a link to kids audio books
Includes a link to online coloring book
Connect the dot book
And find a word book.
Note to Parents and Guardians.
Dear mom and dad, we know flying with babies can be hard, and with young children. We have included earplugs for passengers in case an unexpected incident arises and you feel overwhelmed or stressed about your child causing distress and mental x to passengers. We hope it will alleviate some of that, so you dont need to have anxiety or stress and can tend to your little one.
Parents and guardians of mentally disabled and challenged people, who know they might behave a way that disturbs others, please make those in your row aware of their condition, so they are prepared and can respond kindly and graciously in thoughts, words and actions, to help make all of yall's flight as decent and stress free as possible.
Parents with children above toddler age, passengers do want to get to their destination with as less issues as possible, please kindly ensure your children are using manners, not misbehaving and making the flight more stressful for passengers around them. It is good if they know and are warned by loving parents prior to getting on the plane that there will be consequences if they disturb other people, (such as loss of privileges, or not going to a certian place once you get to your destination, being grounded, losing phone and internet privileges or whatever your normal discipline for education and correction is). Please help the rest of the passengers have a decent flight, and know that you are trying to mitigate the issue, which will give them a bit of peace. There are also audio and game items in the links here that may help redirect them to move their behavior to a distraction and item of interest. Hope you have a good flight.
Those with Medical Conditions
If you have a medical condition that concerns you where you might need attention or help of others, please let the 2 people beside you know. Such as heart issues, balance issues (elderly), diabetes, cancer, MS, a condition where you absolutely need to recline, or other issues. You may want to note to the person in front of you that you have a service dog that does medical tasks and needs to be able to get up off the floor to assist you and so ask that they not recline. Find out from the flight attendant if there are doctors onboard (even for your condition) who could be called on if there is an emergency. And to let the Dr know they might need to assist. Make sure you have your medical alert bracelet on with inscribed directions on it. Or note to the flight attendant ER info is in your front pocket, or on the dog zip pouch etc. Include treat info for the dog. And what to say to calm the dog.
What goes in the care bag?
1. Paper message (with QR scan code)
2. Ear plugs
3. 3 pieces of candy and 1 piece of gum ball. (1.Diabetic sugar free candy 2. Vegan candy. 3. Sugar candy.)
Put the items for the flight attendants and the pilots (minus the earplugs), with candy in separate zip bags labeled, in a large ziplock bag, and a sticky note saying they can have the candy or keep for passengers who might need it for medical needs.
Put everything in your carry on or a carry on tote bag (whatever works for that flight).
When to pass out?
Either as soon as "everyone" has sat down, or ๐as soon as you get in the air at fly altitude.
Simply start at the back of the plane of your section and hand them out with a smile. You can say here you go, and one for you, one for you, one for you and just pass all out.
Until Live
Site is a work in progress, but until it is completed, you could provide a print out message, tract, earplugs and candy in baggies. And mini star stickers from old teachers era.
A basic DIY version is good for now.
We will update the site when the full package/app/site is live. So check back every now and then. And bookmark the page as Flight Evangelism ๐
Tuesday, May 16, 2023
Have you ever told a Lie?
Monday, May 15, 2023
Tips Sharing Gospel online
Tip when sharing the gospel online & offline...
You can use direct links to NeedGod.com but also can share to a direct link to a tract on LW site. They put the full text of the message on the page.
Many pages and groups dont let you add a link when you post or it gets stuck in pending post & likely deleted by them. So...
In notepad, type your reply. Then, copy &
Post the text, include the link but not the .com part. If it is a site that has more behind the .com then just write the pre .com info and send the comment. Most times this helps as a work around to avoid the website algorithm and let's you post your comment or reply. Then wait around 30 seconds, go edit it, and replace the website holder name with the actual link, and it should take it. This makes it available for everyone who sees it, & lurkers, to peek at the link too.(1)
So instead of LivingWaters .com/store/tracts.7533html you would put the placeholder as "LivingWaters."
Some groups ban links completely but you can work around that both 1. by note below on fb re direct messages, or 2. by simply writing "NeedGod .com" (space).
This is what i do in news posts or things related to God, Christianity, and even bad things we see on the news. I follow many news pages, local and national, to be able to do this.
This doesnt work in Instagram in comments, but you can instead say in the comments
"What you write here. ๐See link in bio"
And then have a link in your bio, either to NeedGod.com or maybe GotQuestions.org or if you run an answers blog you can link that there too. Or if you have a witnessing IG acct you might do a video short clip in a Q&A format, maybe at scenic places, giving short answer, but always include a super short gospel presentation, and note a longer answer can be found at GotQuestions.org search "The name of the question". End. And number the video in title "#432 Why is there Suffering?"
Then when you witness online on social platforms that dont let you post a link, you can include: (> see my video #432).
That way they can go look for it, and also might look at other questions too. ๐
You can also share a direct link to the video, on other platforms. Utilize many options to get people to offsite info.
Note. Save your pre written replies or comments into notepad app or evernotes app. Keep them there. Not only can you go there to copy and reshare again... but if there is something wrong with your internet connection or your post is deleted by some odd reason or reply gets stuck in pending ๐คฆ♀️ by moderator... you can delete it and resubmit the comment putting a space before ".com". I have even seen some groups have a filter on that if any ".com" wording is in it that it auto deletes the comment. And this was on facebook. So odd! So save yourself some pain and time... keep your reply in the notes. And to avoid facebook from throwing you out of that post (been doing a urksome refresh since 2021) even while you are writing! So hit LIKE on the comment you are replying to OR the post....and then go type comment in notes. Then go to FB app in your account area go to the settings, activity, across fb, and then find the like. Click view. And post the comment or find the comment you wanted to reply to and paste it there. It is pretty fast to do all of this so dont get discouraged thinking it is a lot of work. It isnt.
If you are wanting to share in a comments convo to 1 resource link from answer sites, investigating Christianity sites, or evidence Bible, etc you can comment /say "I sent an answer by dm, you can check out". Know that it seems on FB if you send via messenger from my experience you are not able to send more than 1 dm to a stranger, unless they reply back. So give your best shot in that message. And no one sees your dm unless you nite you sent one. I've seen some messages sent to me in dm weeks after they sent it since its from a nin friend they out it in a diff place. So get to know the app or site you use.
You can even save that msg to reuse in your phone memo pad notes app. Say something like:
Hi Jay this is the link noted in our convo earlier on xyz topic. I hope it helps you as you investigate Christianity further. (If you have any further curiosities or questions I would be happy to help via dm anytime.)
To investigate Christianity (link)
To understand the Gospel (needGod .com)
Have a great day.
John
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Bonus: IRL
Also note that if you are sharing irl with people, you can have a QR code on your phone they can scan with their phone to get a answer, so you dont go on rabbit trails. But also if you go in 2's to witness, the other person tag teams with you, not just praying, but helping with a difficulty. They could say "oh that's a good question, while you guys talk I'll get that info for you". That keeps you on the gospel convo, avoiding distractions. They can pull up the answer from a website you all use for answers (various sites and video links) and put them in one phone notes app, or into a pdf with hyperlinks. And you can share by airdrop or email after the convo. Make sure to include NeedGod.com at the end, to remind them of the Gospel.
Hope this helps as you look for daily opportunities to share the gospel.
(1) I also noticed on some more moderated groups, where all posts are monitored... if you dont write something religious [they might have word filters on], if you write something like: "Thats Interesting" and that post goes through without moderation. Wait 30 seconds, edit, and paste in what you want to say, with a link, and it should go through. If a link is stopping it and putting it in moderation, just edit and put a space before .com and you should be able to bypass moderators pending hold area. They tend to delete Christian posts but have no problem allowing a post if it is to attack Christianity in a sublte or outright way.
(2) On posting and interacting online ๐
Monday, February 06, 2023
Sharing Gospel by video
Sunday, January 29, 2023
Baptism Event
Baptism event evangelism idea
Luncheon, afternoon Tea or Dinner event
I happened onto something today that I thought might be a cool idea. Idk if any of you are not baptized yet, but this could be a idea we pass around to our circle in the church, born again Christians and to the pastor to pass on to upcoming baptizmees.
I have a feeling this is done elsewhere for babies, but we know it is biblically for believers who can testify. (Typically adults and teens.)
I saw a baptism dinner event image online, (see below) and thought why can't we Christians do that too! I've never heard of such a thing, but why not, it can be evangelistic focused! Use the baptism to both show what has already happened to you at salvation, and to share the gospel with the lost you know.
And you could even help a baptisee plan this kind of thing for them, if you already were baptized. (*Help reach the lost, bless and serve believers).
Given the chances most never get around or find an "in" to get "everyone you know" to hear the gospel, this does sound like a great opportunity idea.
Who
There were questions about who attends.
The event is for the unsaved in the baptismees life (circle). It is not for the church congregation. It is a personal & evangelistic focused event.
When: Theyd be in worship service, Wed or Sun, or a planned mini service if a Sat afternoon event, so theyd lightly meet church members there, and see what goes on in a service. Most of these people never been to church, so smothering the guests at church nor putting a financial burden on the baptismee by inviting the whole church to the luncheon is not a good idea.
The congregation would greet them during normal greeting time in the service.
The baptismees congregation selected-volunteers can participate in the after meal event, and get fed there too. The attendees will get to see the church members and lightly mingle.
There would need to be a notice reminder to congregation that the "after meal" is not for the church congregation, but only the unsaved invitees of the baptismees circle of influence who were invited by rsvp, and the selected volunteers and speakers. *all this noted prior to baptism service, likely in the 411 bulletin flier(*)
Also, some churches have multiple baptisms in a day, which would mean the church building hall will not hold everyone, and would mix up the purpose. But the hall could be used for the poorest member if that works out (see why below). But def a blessing that a place is avail.
Children of attendees
Attending Parents can
*prior arrange for children and teens to go to friends house for the day or with local family.
*church could offer child care for young ones, or on very needed basis
>At the church, by volunteer church members [background checked & who already work with kids at church. Decide on babies and toddlers for those who have no family or godparent locally.]
> If church has video feed to kids or baby classrooms then the parents can temp get access to the feed for concerns.
>Parents can pack a meal if child has allergies or dietary needs. Otherwise church can provide a small meal potluck or sandwich made by volunteers.
>And volunteers over kids eats as well. Provided.
*all needs deciding in advance w church, but def need answer for needs on rsvp, b4 invites are sent out.
Can send physical and digital invite if time is short.
Guest plus 1
We certainly would like to, if possible, invite a SO so they also can hear the gospel too.
Gifts.
No gifts necessary.
Def want this to be a gospel focused event.
But the "church" could pitch in and buy the baptismee a nice Bible and present it at the event.
Plan a tea event, luncheon or dinner event
It would be budget based, some have more $$ and options than others.
>Some would be able to have lovely windows and views like the photo sample. And have food catered etc. Others at a less expensive venue like a hotel banquet hall (some are $50-100 for 2 hrs), others with no funds would have to do at the church, but if you can get donations, it would be good to do.
Many churches have less than 75 members, are in old old churches that are dark and not a good place for this kind of event. However if theres a flat yard they could do a overhead tented set up with tables and safe chairs. Otherwise offsite is best. Perhaps at a Christians nice home, or a semi decent hotel banquet hall. Lovely window scenic views would add to the atmosphere.
>if on a low budget, you could ask congregation to provide potluck style food, and ensure theres certian dietary/allergy needs for attendees, who rsvp'd. So decent option or meal made can accommodate and feed all.
If you are in a church with 200-500+, or 2,000 members and in a nice or really nice building, then perhaps a church located event would work, but most are turned off by church, so it is good to move the meal to offsite. Same location ideas as prev listed.
You could alternately decide to invite the church to the lunch/dinner if it is held at a restauraunt and if the members are willing to pay their meal expenses in advance, and tip well. And if they/the baptismee can find a restauraunt willing to take on the large number of people (with appropriate+ number of waiters), and baptismee pays for his guests, or all the church members pitch in/donate and pay the cost of all the attendees meal , (*this means all members can donate even if only some go). But find a place where you can basically take over the place cuz youll need an mc and stuff like that where it has privacy.
Plan of event
*Meet with pastor, let him know what you are planning.
Request his help (*see minimal things below).
>Def pay the pastor & mc (& musicians) [if they do not offer to do it for free, as a serving volunteer situation to bless baptismee and reach the lost, for the Lord].
*Ask if he could add some requests to the bulletin, perhaps a loose sheet *you* pay to print, and have inserted into it. And post it on church fb social media page/members group
Insert includes
>notice of event, evangelistic in nature.
*Event details & restrictions.
Those with low budget:
*Potluck food assistance needed, contact 411
*Volunteer servers needed
*Funding donations, if needed
*Plan of event schedule
*Only those with invites by mail & select volunteers can attend the after event.
Day of Service& event:
Beginning of service, announce so&so baptism today, and thank honored guests for attending and visiting the church.
After sermon, volunteers head to join event location set up volunteers / hired service folk and prepare the food on serving tables. And set up any set up needed if they (church volunteers) are doing it all (venue tables & all set up, and food prep).
Baptism at end of service, with testimony
All sing some songs while baptismee gets cleaned up and ready to exit to venue.
When baptismee returns to pews, then service ends.
Gather everyone and suggest bathroom stop first, while at church.
Guests & volunteers move to venue.
At venue,
*Group chat dropped to attendees and volunteers
*Sugar free lemonade on tables & gluten free bread & sugar free jam
*Everyone is seated & time for bathroom stop.
*When all are seated, event starts.
>MC or pastor introduces the baptismee to the room entrance.
>Baptismee gives short thank you for coming speech, hands mic over to pastor
>Pastor does a short like speech explaining the believers baptism symbolizes, and tells of the radical change that happens in the life of someone God converts. Not at baptism, but when they originally were born again the day they got saved. And notes a few things baptismee likely noted to the pastor, or was in the testimony, noting a few things that were immediate radical changes.
And finally notes the menu has the gospel on the backside, and resources. Please give it a read.
Mc: Thank you for celebrating "name" baptism with us today. Clinks glass, "And now, lunch/dinner is served".
This gives them time to look at the gospel, chat, meet the table guests etc. While food is served to each table.
>might want plates placed on 2 tier carts so it stays warm. Might want plate lids added if food is hot.
Could have harp and violin player at the event playing baptismees fav hymns. (Ive seen 2 for hire on IG so far, perhaps your church has them, or you could find inexpensive sonewhere).
Music break:
(*feed musicians)
At music break: - Could have a few of Christians & family or friends who volunteered in advance to share (after viewed and approved) a brief couple things theyve noticed of changes in baptismees life.
Music plays
Music break for gifting
(Or connect testimonies with gift segment for longer music break)
Gift moment
Pastor presents a Bible gift to the baptismee
And "maybe" a simple cross necklace; noted as gifted by the congregation, (that MC puts on them). Along with baptism certificate. *those who see baptismee wearing the necklace, will be reminded of the baptism event.
Baptizee gives gift to Pastor
Mc announcement of dessert
Clink glass, "and now dessert is served", enjoy
Upbeat lively music plays as
Dessert served
Last song plays.
Baptismee ends: thanks everyone for coming.
MC notes
1. Asks for a round of applause to thank the volunteers today, notes they are members of the church who selflessly served God and us today.
2. We ask that if you have any lovely photos from the event, please drop them in the event group chat/email
3. if they have any questions about the gospel, salvation, questions about Christianity that the baptismee, the pastor or decon can help, as well as the resources on the menu keepsake.
Pastor: Hope you had an enjoyable time. The venue will close in 10 minutes. Let's do a short prayer before we leave. Pray.
Baptismee: "Thanks again everyone. Grab your kids and yall Go home safely. Good night and God bless".
Music encore song ends night.
Menu
Outside- nice design and info
Inner lt side- lists all the food for the day
Inner rt side- hymns/music played & the folks doing the music instruments (business?)
Back - gospel, baptismees text#, church email, gotquestions.org, and church weblink
Church volunteers
Get situated with how many needed, for what, who will volunteer, and a few alt fill in's.
Musicians
If church has harpist and violinist ask if they would like to participate and ask if they would volunteer, ask payment, give discount (based on financial needs)
I have seen these online but do not know their cost. I have seen for weddings the groom paid for their flights, but perhaps you can find a local (pro, students near graduation, christian music group at Christian college to find a couple, or from nearby church, etc
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The bonus...
Follow up evangelism:
๐You could also do a 1, and every 5 year social media post "memory" of the event and thank everyone again for coming, and for those who couldn't come or didnt know me then, you can watch the highlights at www. And hope that everyone slides in to go look ๐. It is a def reminder to attendees.
> the highlight reel, which has pastor baptism announcement video showing congregation and him, the baptism & testimony, luncheon speech, a few moments of clip & photos, and someone from church giving the full gospel (as a bonus for the video highlight reel) wrapping it up.
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Save this link "Baptism dinner" if you would like to share it with others.
If you do this event, please help other believers with planning advice and help, so it goes smoothly for them.
It would also be great if this was always done free as a service to the Lord, to bless unsaved humans, & serve the brethren in the church, but for events that might be a higher budget by the baptismee it may not be a bad idea if someone/some in the county start a local "believers baptism events" event business on the side, that also assists the lower end budget folks at the churches (so this isnt only viewed as a business, but a service to God). Perhaps a free check list based on location and budget range, and link to budget friendly vendors/musicians [link on website] and 1-2 free consults to iron out anything theyre having difficulty with, or last minute vendor need (due to loss).
It would be good if you also pt hire older church members & older widows who need the income of a side job, and any able yet disabled folk too. Even if you use a virtual admin for some assisting.

